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sir, if you cannot even summon up the testicular fortitude to tell your fiance what is going on, you shouldnt be getting married. plain and simple.

get off the computer, man up, tell your woman what is going on, and then start looking for jobs.

because yeah, she is going to be REDICULOUSLY mad at you if she finds out about this a year or two from now.

trust me, i know exactly how it goes. my fiance has been borrowing money from his father. i knew his dad helped with like, $20 here and there if we were having a REALLY bad week, but i recently found out how much he has actually borrowed from his father. the fact that he hid it from me hurts way more than anything else he has ever done

dude if you are this desperate for cash get a loan or ask your family to help pay the bills for now and pay them back little bye little this is a loan too but its family they will always help in times of need unless you were a jerk

If you hide this from your fiancee, you are an idiot. This is life.

You are joining your lives in marriage. If you go through with this marriage without telling her, you deserve all the yelling and screaming and crying that will come from keeping this from her. It could even be grounds for annulment.

TELL HER TODAY!!!! Figure this out together. It is not the end of the world. Life happens, and couples work through it together.

Truthfully, it would break her heart that you didn’t tell her the truth. You two need to figure this out together. If you are willing to go into this commitment holding important information that will affect her what will you do once you are married? I am still with my high school sweetheart and that’s how I will feel. Ask family for loans they will be happy to help you sweethearts!

OK, I think some of the answers were a tad harsh…I want to first say I think it’s great the lengths you’d go to, to make sure your bride can still have the wedding of her dreams. BUT, I would have to agree with the other posters that there’s something really wrong if you don’t feel you can share this with the woman you plan to spend the rest of your life with! Whether that’s because of a misperception about her on your part or a misguided notion of what being her man or a good husband means, ie. a hero in this instance where heroics really aren’t called for, but if you really are right about her reaction, I’m more concerned about where she’s at.

I don’t think there’s any reason to attack you, I’m sure you are trying to find a job, you certainly sound desperate enough to be doing so. As a bride once myself, I understand how much all women deep down would love for their wedding to go perfectly but this is real life, people lose jobs and sometimes at the most inopportune of times! Are you not telling her because deep down you fear she would reject you or think less of you if she knows the truth? Is that just you or would she really do that? The only thing that should really matter to her is if you keep this from her.

When I was preparing for my wedding, I read a piece of advice that went something like, take all the challenges and stress involved in organising your wedding, as a rehearsal for how you and your partner will handle stresses you encounter once you’re married. At the most stressful times, that helped me reassess my attitude and take a longer term view of things, I was determined to pass the ‘rehearsal’ if you will!

Money is an issue that will come up again and again, it’s one of the big 3 as they say. Please, as much as I applaud your good intentions to be your woman’s hero, it really isn’t called for in this instance but honesty and transparency between you two, is. Trust me, it will pay off in a deeper, stronger relationship, the short-term embarrassment and upset is no biggy in comparison.

I chose to think of ways to reduce costs before my wedding because I gave myself a very conservative budget although my husband and I live in a country where it is normal to give money as wedding gifts so I knew we would have more coming in than I was allowing myself to work with. I was conservative because I was adamant I wouldn’t get in to debt over one day, just in case we received less than it seemed we would. So I can honestly tell you, reducing costs can be done and it can still be a beautiful affair! Have faith! Hope it all works out.